The old driver's bumper car is unlucky (the old driver's bumper car is unlucky)

Last weekend, I took my four-year-old son to a children's playground.

At the bumper car venue, my son played happily for several rounds, still wanting more.

Probably absorbed in my own children, I didn't notice at all that a child of similar age "bumped into" his son with a smile.

With a bang, the children's cars collided. At first, I didn't care much until the child casually said:

"You old six! You old six! ……"

As a parent, after hearing the child's words, I subconsciously paused, and then looked it up on the Internet.

It doesn't matter if you don't check it, just check it.

The so-called "Lao 6" refers to "people who like to play dirty tricks".

The present situation, the child casually said, the high probability is because of "fun"; But from an adult's point of view, this "net stalk" makes me particularly alert.

Not long ago, People's Daily also commented on the phenomenon that "children are more and more fond of saying bad things".

570 million readings and tens of thousands of discussions.

The comment area is even more lively:

"It's true that rotten stalks are rampant, and some people are bored to death knowing that a stalk can't live without its mouth."

"It has penetrated into the interior of primary school students, infringing on the spiritual world of children."

"……"

From this point of view, many netizens are also suffering from "rotten stalks" for a long time.

From the successive voices of the official media to the excitement of netizens, looking back at the whole incident carefully gives us more than just a little inspiration and thinking.

At the moment when the network culture is particularly prosperous, more and more children fall in love with playing with stalks, which makes them feel fun and interesting, for fear that they will fall behind if they don't say anything.

But if you dig deeper, you will find that things are far more complicated than you thought.

In order to clarify the right and wrong of the incident, we must first know the concept of "network rotten stalk".

To say "rotten stalks", let's talk about what "stalks" are.

Stem, from the misuse of "bang" in cross talk, refers to something that makes people laugh.

It can be humorous or ironic.

But there is a key element, which is "understanding".

That is, the speaker can shake it and the listener can pick it up.

So, what is a rotten stalk?

Literally, it means "a failed joke".

For example, the joke itself can't make you laugh and empathize because of boring, homophonic words, or omitting the subject and different logic. It is likely to be a "rotten stalk".

Take the named "chicken you are so beautiful" as an example.

This is an Internet spoof a few years ago.

When artist Cai Moumou sang the lyrics of "Just because you are so beautiful" in a singing video, some netizens pointed out that the pronunciation was like "You are so beautiful" because of the close pronunciation.

Back then, artists, fans and netizens had a good time, and people with a heart created a short video of ghosts and animals for a second time, which spread like a virus. "Chicken is so beautiful" so it spread all over the network.

Another example is, "miss your leg and kiss your mouth".

This is the lyrics in the online divine comedy "Spades A".

Adults basically know what this is describing. Because the rhythm of this song is very brainwashing, it is easy to remember, and it is gradually getting popular.

And the place where it exploded was kindergarten.

It is not difficult to find that some children, under the guidance of their teachers, are swaying to their hearts' content.

With the passage of time, these popular internet stalks will gradually withdraw from the historical stage.

It can be said that "stalk" constructs a brand-new discourse system by decoding and coding something or something in different situations, which is a reflection of the psychological state of the public and an expression of group emotions in a certain period or in a specific scene.

It has been controversial since its birth.

It's true that some internet slang still embodies the creativity of netizens, enriches the expression of language, and injects unique vitality into daily expression.

However, it is an indisputable fact that a large number of current internet craze stems from improvisation, simple and rude pinyin abbreviations, boring homophones, and variations of some vulgar words.

Their excessive "prosperity" is an impact on people's discourse system at present.

The impact on minors should not be underestimated.

Judging from the birth of rotten stalks, everyone may be its definer and disseminator.

Of course, including children. Especially, young children.

People's Daily reported a case.

A netizen was asked by her 4-year-old daughter: "Mom, do you know why dinosaurs became extinct?"

Before she answered, the child proudly said, "Because it didn't like the video!"

As a parent, I can hardly laugh or cry when I hear this answer.

Just like this, many parents are very worried about the impact of "bad network stalks" on their children's future.

Especially, academically.

Previously, a Chinese test paper of a post-00 candidate became famous in World War I on the Internet.

Not because he wrote a perfect composition, nor because his paper was so delicate, but because he wrote "Oligei" in all the blanks.

Even the composition with a score of as high as 50 points, he is also full of "Austrian gifts".

In the end, the marking teacher awarded 0 points.

Born in 2016, this phrase "Aoligai" was selected as the top ten online terms of the year by the National Language Resources Monitoring and Research Center in 2020.

In the language environment of the whole people's "Olympic Games", no child in primary and secondary schools is spared. They have strong learning ability and are good at imitation. With a little "internalization", they become their own mantra.

However, the words are quick and refreshing, and the dream wakes up and regrets heartbroken.

The exam results will not lie, and the delayed studies will sooner or later bite the individual.

In the end, it is the children who suffer.

According to the "Research Report on Internet Use of Minors in China in 2021" jointly issued by the Central Committee of the Communist Youth League and China Internet Network Information Center, the number of underage netizens in China reached 191 million in 2021. The trend of minors' contact with the internet is obvious, and the internet penetration rate of primary school students is 95.0%.

At the critical stage of minors' growth, the formation of personality is easily influenced by external unfavorable factors. These easy-to-spread internet slang will not only affect children's studies, but also hinder their physical and mental health.

On Douban, there is a group called "The papers I corrected in those years". In this group, teachers who are members of the group will post wonderful papers and homework answers that they have corrected from time to time.

Just some time ago, a team member teacher also posted a post reminding students not to use online vocabulary.

The reason is that when their students compose words for the word "lick", they form a "lick dog".

Unfortunately, many students have formed the same words.

As the latest and widely accepted online vocabulary, the word "licking dogs" is being frequently used by primary school students.

First, the word "lick" is really difficult to compose words, and second, the word "lick the dog" is too deeply rooted in people's hearts.

As an adult, it is highly probable that the word "licking a dog" contains many vulgar and degrading elements.

Maybe someone will say:

"I'm just kidding. What's the big deal?"

As everyone knows, these spiritual "junk food" are like poison wrapped in sugar coating.

Seemingly harmless, it actually seeps into the bone marrow bit by bit.

For example, in the videos under the banner of popular science among teenagers, there are many series of "Snow White and Belle" that parents hate deeply, and some concepts such as "beauty and ugliness", "poverty and wealth" and so-called "green tea" are instilled in children prematurely;

Watching a movie series for 2 minutes is also used to "harvest" children.

In a video called "Weird Incident of Piggy Peggy", Zhang Kou means "Look, there is still a pig in that house ..."

The most terrible thing is that in the minds of some underage children, these online words play an invisible role of "matchmaking".

For example, Bai Piao.

Some children, after getting help from others, will not only be grateful, but also show off their "achievements" everywhere: "You see, I am empty-handed and take advantage of it again."

Another example is YYDS.

This seemingly innocent online slogan virtually deprives children of their right to express themselves. You will find that no matter whether it is from Tiannan or Haibei, when describing someone or something as excellent, they all use the word "YYDS".

Netizens will not be graded when playing with stalks, and online conversations will not ask each other's age first. When the whole network language environment is flooded with various kinds of stalks, teenagers who lack discernment have no resistance to this kind of invasion.

Over time, when children return to the normal language system, they can't distinguish what is correct and beautiful.

At present, it is neither reasonable nor possible to completely isolate teenagers from network culture, and to isolate all network words.

Moreover, blind suppression will be counterproductive.

Especially for underage children, it is the critical period for the formation of personality and three views. The more adults forbid it, the more "curious" they are.

Therefore, instead of "one size fits all", it is better to do the opposite and use a method suitable for children and in line with the times.

The key is how to properly guide.

The strength of an individual alone may be limited, but if all Qi Xin work together, there may be unexpected joy.

Parents should be the first teacher and accompany their children to participate in more rich after-school activities.

Get in touch with society and nature more, and have a more colorful cultural life, instead of indulging in the internet every day.

When children encounter vulgar online slang, they should be corrected and guided in time.

Schools should consciously strengthen education in standardizing the use of language and characters, help children correctly understand and treat the network, and improve their judgment on complicated information.

Of course, more importantly, the regulatory authorities and platforms should continuously rectify the network environment, standardize the construction of network civilization, and create a refreshing cultural space for children to "learn to speak well".

When people gather firewood, the flames are high. Only by pooling many forces into a river can we form a turbulent potential energy.

Only in a relatively healthy language environment can our children be nourished by a good language and have a rich, perfect and pure heart.

They will actively think and express themselves.

Finally, I want to share with you a teacher's words:

"In the first few years of life, every child will have some words that touch his parents. It is the rare world that childhood flashes instantly illuminate the hidden and forgotten hearts of adults. Children's language has a bitter beauty. In the years to come, similar moments have become less and less, and they are being assimilated by the rules of adults. "

No flower is a flower from the beginning.

But there is always a flower that will grow up in care.

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